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Morgan<p>I loaned someone my copy of verbal judo. if it was you, can you send it my way again? I miss it.</p><p><a href="https://universeodon.com/tags/verbaljudo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>verbaljudo</span></a></p>
Coach Pāṇini ®<p>TIL that VerbalJudo.com is actual thing since 1983.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/VerbalJudo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VerbalJudo</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/VerbalMeme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VerbalMeme</span></a></p>
Adam Grant<p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/ProTip" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ProTip</span></a>: Want to have better discussions? Try instead asking a question that gets your argument to come out of their mouth.</p><p>🗣️ "How many times did that happen?" (Once)<br>🗣️ "We know that for sure?" (Well...*downgrades exaggeration*)<br>🗣️ "Can you show me how you do it?" (I don't know).</p><p>🗣️ "Should you follow me?" (yes)</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/rhetoric" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>rhetoric</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/philosophy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>philosophy</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/relationships" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationships</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/conversation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>conversation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/negotiation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>negotiation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/arguing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>arguing</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/arguments" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>arguments</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/discussion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>discussion</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/politics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>politics</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/persuasion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>persuasion</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/conflict" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>conflict</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/relationship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>relationship</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/verbaljudo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>verbaljudo</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/tricks" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tricks</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.online/tags/lifehack" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>lifehack</span></a></p>
Gerald So<p>The book <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/VerbalJudo" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>VerbalJudo</span></a>: The Gentle Art of <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/Persuasion" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>Persuasion</span></a> by the late George Thompson III espouses a similar approach to conflict resolution. By <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/sublimating" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>sublimating</span></a>, <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/subordinating" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>subordinating</span></a> your own <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/ego" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>ego</span></a>, you can deflect others&#39; <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/insults" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>insults</span></a> and verbal <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>abuse</span></a>, get to the root of their problems, and get them to voluntarily <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/cooperate" class="mention hashtag" rel="tag">#<span>cooperate</span></a>. Again, not manipulation. You&#39;re working toward a person&#39;s best interest, which also happens to be yours.</p>