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I joined a running group at the track today and I may as well have been part of a walking group next to them.
I still got 4 miles in but I find the running clubs near me don’t have any casual runners. Just about everyone is intense and going minimum of 6-8 miles on easy days and training for 30-50 milers.
I miss my old running club that had a slower pace and I was actually one of the faster people. Well, at least I’m getting out there and trying to meet people.
Why is it so hard to make friends when you’re older?
@LoganFive I've heard it suggested that it's harder to make friends as an adult because adults are more risk-averse to opening up to each other. But meeting people is hard, and I find hobby groups my favourite place to meet people. Trouble is finding a hobby you enjoy, have time for, and that attracts people you get on with
@trantion @LoganFive I think it's less about risk and more about not having much spare time. Still, got to keep trying.
@timrichards @trantion @LoganFive
Start your own casual running group? Make a post on social media as to when and where to meet up. See what happens.
And yes. Exercise groups can be the hardest to make friends if you aren't doing an after event calorie/hydration load at a local shop.
@MyWoolyMastadon @timrichards @LoganFive That's a good point. I used to climb a few years ago, but gave up because when you're climbing indoors, people just pair up and spend all evening at the opposite end of a rope, so you never get to chat. It can apply to other hobbies though, if talking isn't appropriate. I guess all you can do is try things and see how it goes